Mary Argo named 2013 Joy Sparks Spirit of 4-H Award for Sussex County

October 9, 2013 in mainfeature, Sussex County 4-H

mary Argo poses with award

Mary Argo stands with Mark Manno, right, and members of Joy Sparks family, niece Lindsay Gooden Hughes, right,  and Sparks’ brother Alex Gooden, left.

Delaware 4-H has announced Mary Argo as the 2013 recipient of the Joy Sparks Spirit of 4-H Award for Sussex County. Argo was honored during the Sussex County 4-H annual achievement celebration held on Sept. 28, 2013 at the Carvel Research & Education Center in Georgetown, before an audience of approximately 150 4-H families and supporters. Recipients for the award in New Castle and Kent County will be announced at later 4-H events.

Mary Argo expresses her surprise and gratitude for the honor

Mary Argo expresses her surprise and gratitude for the honor

Argo, who retired in April 2013 as Sussex 4-H educator was surprised as her name was called to the stage. In attendance to support her grandchildren in 4-H, and to later present the Friend of 4-H Award to volunteer leader Dr. William Campbell, Argo was continuing her career tradition of happily handing out awards to others.  Her arrival on stage to accept the honor was met with a standing ovation.

“This is a surprise! I had not a clue about this!” Argo exclaimed. “I have been very, very jealous of all the people who have gone before who have won this,” Argo continued. “This is a wonderful, wonderful award. I can’t think of anyone finer to follow than Joy Sparks.”

The Joy Sparks Spirit of 4-H Award was established in 2009, in memory of Joy Sparks, Delaware 4-H program leader, who died in February of that same year. The honor recognizes outstanding achievement in individuals who exhibit dedication, enthusiasm and embody 4-H values. The four H’s of the program represent Head, Heart, Hands and Health, which members and volunteers pledge to dedicate to their club, community and country through leadership, citizenship and the furtherance of life skills and community service.

Mary Argo’s career began at the University of Delaware 23 years ago, the last 18 as Sussex County 4-H agent. One of Argo’s signature events was coordinating the annual 4-H Spring Farm Tours at Green Acres Farm – an event that invites area school children to visit Delaware’s largest dairy farm, owned and operated by the Hopkins family of Lewes.  Each year, for two day in May, this valuable partnership welcomes between 1,500 and 2,000 youth who embark on discovery and participate in the sounds, smells and textures offered as lessons in an authentic agricultural experience – oftentimes, receiving their first introduction to Cooperative Extension and the University of Delaware. With the help of Argo’s colleagues at Carvel, tens of thousands of young students have been reached through this one event alone during her tenure as 4-H agent.

Argo was recognized for her belief in the value of personal visits, through which Argo cultivated many strong community relationships throughout her career.  A particular favorite program Argo initiated was Fridays with 4-H, an afterschool program at La Casita in Georgetown. Every Friday, Argo introduced 4-H curriculum and experiential learning activities. The outreach program impacted hundreds of Latino youth in Sussex County and was the direct result of Argo’s networking and personal touch in her community.

“All who know Mary never fail to mention her tireless work ethic, positive outlook and enthusiastic dedication to make 4-H available to every child in Delaware,” said Mark Manno as he read from the nomination. “She has never missed an opportunity to shine the spotlight on an accomplishment of a 4-H youth member or adult volunteer.”

Argo joined 4-H at the age of 10, as an inaugural member of the Broadkill Kool Kats 4-H Club, a club founded by her mother, Frances Millman. As an adult, Mary served as the club’s organizational leader for 12 years. In 1986, Argo was inducted into the prestigious 4-H alumni organization known as the Sussex County 4-H Order of the Link. Two of Argo’s daughters are currently Delaware 4-H leaders, and 10 of her 11 grandchildren are currently enrolled in Delaware 4-H.

Argo was joined on stage by members of Joy Sparks family, brother Alex Gooden and niece Lindsay Gooden Hughes,who presented Argo with the award.

Donald Sparks, S. Hallock du Pont Chair in Soil and Environmental Chemistry was not able to join family members at the ceremony, said later, “Mary richly deserves the 2013 Joy Sparks Spirit of 4-H Award. Her numerous contributions to Delaware 4-H will be long lasting. I wish her the very best.”

For a career and 4-H program dedicated to “Making the Best Better,” Argo’s best will be hard to beat.

Article and photo by  Michele Walfred